The Wilson High School graduates who died this past weekend in a murder-suicide will be remembered at separate services this week.

The killings took place Saturday morning when police say 19-year-old Shawn Wolf shot and killed 18-year-old Kari Gorman when she came to see him at his house. Then police say Wolf drove to his father's grave where he took his own life. Friends say Gorman was ending her eight-month relationship with Wolf. Both Wolf and Gorman graduated from Wilson High School last month and planned to attend college together in the fall.

The incident has left many in the small town along the shore of Lake Ontario searching for answers. School officials admit they're racking their brains trying to think if there were any warning signs they might have missed. "I think it would be natural to ask yourselves those questions and at this point I can honestly say no I don't think we missed it," says Wilson High School Principal Daniel Johnson, "In fact this is beyond comprehension for me as a high school principal. If you had said this event could or would happen I would have said 'no it can't'."

At a small school like Wilson High School which has fewer than 500 students the faculty really gets to know their students. "We're a very small school in fact I know all the students personally by name and I've had many opportunities to speak with both of them (Kari Gorman and Shawn Wolf)," says Johnson.

Shawn Wolf though apparently never let on to teachers, counselors or administrators if he was struggling emotionally. Wolf's father died when Shawn was only nine-years-old, and his father's grave is where Shawn apparently chose to end his own life with his father's gun. Psychologists say children who lose a parent at a young age often have abandonment issues and it's possible if Kari Gorman was in fact breaking up with Wolf that could have triggered emotions he may have been struggling with for years.

"When we look at the psychological dynamics of the breaking up of any relationship, the primary dynamic involved is that of abandonment," says Dr. Amy Beth Taublieb. Taublieb stresses that when a child loses a parent that certainly does not guarantee a horrible outcome. Plenty of children lose parents and go on to live normal lives.

Kari Gorman's wake is set for Wednesday and Thursday in at the Hardison Funeral Home on Ransomville Road in Ransomville with calling hours from 7-9 p.m. on Wednesday and 2-4 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. on Thursday. Her funeral is Friday morning at 10:00 at the funeral home. Shawn Wolf's memorial service will be Thursday at the Ransomville Free Methodist Church. Gorman's family asks that anyone who wants to make a donation to please make one to support the cheerleading program at Wilson High School. Gorman was a cheerleader there. Wolf's family would like donations made to the school's lacrosse program as he was lacrosse player for Wilson.

Meantime, school officials want families to know there is help available to anyone who needs it. "I would hope any of our families here in the Wilson community if they need any kind of help they would come to this school or seek help for their children. It's important," says JoAnn Carpenter, School Counselor at Wilson High School.

School officials sent a letter to parents and students on Monday inviting them to a special meeting at the school on Monday August 4th at 7:30. The purpose of the meeting is to provide information on the grieving process, suicide prevention, and about healthy dating relationships.